Name:Leony (not her real name)
Subject: Relationship
Question - Thank you for any insight that you can give to me. I`m not quite sure what I am supposed to learnfrom someone that I met this summer. Instant bond. My birthdate is 4-13-65  11:53 p.m. Franklin,Indiana. His birthdate is 9-07-60 Sorry I do not know the time of day. Place of birth Louisville,Kentucky.  Again, I appreciate whatever help that you can give to me in solving this puzzle. Best regards, Leony

Dear Leony

You were born is 13 April 1965 into TO8 Day 7 giving you a Major 2 and a Minor 7. And your guy was born 7 September 1960 into TO8 Day 32 giving him a Major 5 and Minor 8.

As a TO8 Day 7 you are likely to be interested in everything, and have passionate beliefs and dreams of what might be. You have a well-developed and expressive personality, and delight in the opportunities that get thrown up when they allow luck to take a hand.  You can feel very much at a loss in the wider world, and need strong family ties to anchor them to the present.  You learn from watching others, and may have teachers or social groups on which you model their own behaviour. You treat people as people treat you, and you can maintain friendships and working relationships with small gestures of generosity which enables you to control your social environment well. You keep  your own particular long range goals always in mind, and can become a strong member of organisations, mastering all the detail. But you will prefer to work through a private network of relationships and duties rather than through standard channels. You find that your desire for control over decisions in your projects can undermine your long-term plans, and you are aware that there is a tendency to convert what you want into a superior moral position. You are sensual, enjoy your pleasures and the fine discriminations of taste, and may tend to think that sex can provide you with the stability you want in life. You are keen on the home and think of it as a place of safety. As a TO8 Day 32 your guy is direct and honest with those he deals with, and yet likes to keep insulated from the pressures that dealing with people can bring.  He likes to concentrate on the moment, and enjoy his simple, pure but intense friendships. . He is sensitive to his own place in the community, and to the physical space he calls his own but may be unaware that the social scene has a dark side of competition for a place in society.  His liking of irresponsibility will always be subdued by his social obligations. He is generous with his heart,  and loves children and new life everywhere. He will try to make family life uncluttered, measured and healthy, but cannot help but feel that his home is under attack from popularism and cultural decay.  He sees his community divided into the good and bad, the worthy and the unworthy.  He calculates people's worth in very logical way, and is reluctant to give them the benefit of the doubt in the absence of evidence. He is frightened by the idea of destiny, and sees chance as the risk of failure rather than as an opportunity. He prefers not to take on unrealistic hopes, but just stay optimistic.  He is likely to guard his own thoughts jealously. He is sensitive to corruption and are horrified by the evil that people can do to each other. He allies himself with the young and innocent everywhere, and wants to protect the spark of life which must be preserved at all costs.

So Leony, you seem to be very suited.  Your Resolutions are to 4 and 1  - mystery and exploration, and your guy resolves to 1 and 2. Areas of conflict may be in the way you treat friends and members of the community. You may both be demanding of your children but there's no doubt you would make a wonderful home life for them.